Male Baldness Info

Male pattern baldness is not a family trait, I attribute it to stress, smoking , & an American (too much, fat, carbs, & chemicals) diet.
But I’ve quit smoking, I’m eating better, exercising, trying to chill out, but it’s still looking worse every week. It’s thinning from the front to about the middle of my head.
My friends say its a lost cause & that I should just shave it all off, & I would, but I have a HUGE, scarred, bumpy forehead & even when I keep my hair short it doesn’t look good….what can I do, I’m considering everything (including surgery), I don’t consider myself vain, but this is constantly on my mind! What works? I’ve heard of everything from Propecia to lemon juice. Ive tried Rogaine, massaging, olive oil, ….What works for you?

were do i start, well for as long as i can remember i have a massive problem, my face, you see what i have is a condition the doctor doesnt know what it is, or the dermotologist.
my problem is also a skin condition, my face is very very sensitive, and its always red, then when something triggers it, ie- heat, sunlight, exercise, hot drinks, hot food, crowded places, my face turns, crimson red, and stings like crazy and is very very painfull. im 24 now and put up with this from been a little kid, and my condition has worsened as i have become older. cant even stay in the sunlight.
i have visited my doctor numerous times, he has pescribed me drugs that have had no effect, he has sent me to dermotolgist, where they are saying my skin is fine, which it is not. i know its not, i have been doing reasearch for years trying to find a way to treat my condition, i have come across a couple of years ago, an operation which is called a micro ets op. i was booked in and waiting for my op, but i chicken out at the last minute, simply because the side effects was to high, ie – , severe sweating, paralisation in parts of your body, droopy eye lids, all your nerves not responding correctly, so i didnt think it was safe enough.
i have now started to lose my hair, due to male pattern baldness, and all i can start to see is this red crimson, painfull head, its not just gonna be my face its also my haed. which is making me feel so so so down, and depressed, i always sleep now, dont likegoing out, i just feel like i dont want to live anymore.
its constantly on my mind, every split second of the day. and i dream about my problems to all the time.
i just wish i could get my face the same colour as my body. my redness stops at the collor bone line.
i just need something doing because i feel so down about it, and starting to feel like i dont want to be here.
i feel so so depressed, i went to my docs last week and was the first time in my life i actually started crying that much i couldnt talk properly, he just gave me more drugs and sent me on my way, its doing no good what so ever.