Male Baldness Info

My wife has been complaining about my pubic area being too “natural”. I am a new age kinda guy these days. I have read many articles covering this issue but have come to find it to be a confusing endeavor. I don’t want to shave it all off. I still have nightmares about my pre pubescent scrotum and how sad it looked without his fro. Any adive? I dont want to loose those curly locks! I mean its like I put chia pet grow on my junk. Its so nice and firm. Im sure if we found out the chemical my body produces to grow this stuff we would have the cure for male pattern baldness! I COULD BE RICH!!

I’m 20, and have been going bald for about 2-3 years. At the point I’m at now, If I carefully work my hair, and “style” it so it looks like I’m just letting it lie flat as though I had let it dry naturally after taking a shower, then you really can’t tell. But if my hair gets moved as a result o pretty much anythiing, it reveals a massive thinning patch on the front of the top of my head.
Anyway, my question is whether you think I should shave my head to avoid having to deal with the whole male pattern baldness thing, or what?
I have never been totally bald before, but for about 4 months I kept my hair at about 1/4″ in length, and got complimented on it. Granted, I wore a cap constantly.
I am going to try and make my avatar a piture of me instead, so you can see what I look like with hair.